Cause and Effects of Divorce
On that beautiful day when two people decide to be joined in matrimony they hope their lives won’t result in a divorce, but often that isn’t the case. There are many things that cause a divorce to occur leaving the partners to become individuals, and children to deal with long and short term stressors. Unfortunately in America, Only about half of marriages are for the better, leaving nearly 1 million children to cope with the effects of divorce, most before the age of 18 (Jenish). When life causes two people to resort to divorce, all parties are in some way effected but the repercussions are different when it comes to the children involved. A divorce may be a mutual decision or one sided; it can bring feelings of content or turmoil. No matter how a divorce comes to be there is always a reason for the decision and lives that were once close nit are now separated. A divorce occurs when one, or both, partners is unhappy with the relationship. Thus the question that needs answering is, “What causes someone to feel that being apart will make them happier?” In order to really understand what caused two people to get divorced you would have to look at their personal lives before and after marriage to determine what changed. A change in the relationship indirectly causes the divorce, the way the change influences a person can be directly seen as the main cause. For example if a husband cheats on his wife, the wife no longer trusts him and no longer wants to be with him. In this instance the change was the husband choosing to be intimate with another woman. The wife may then become insecure about herself, unable to trust her husband, and develop feelings of anxiety and depression. These feelings cause her to no longer be happy with the relationship and a divorce is implemented. Since no two people are alike no two relationships, or divorces, will be the same. Whatever may have caused the divorce, everyone is affected by this alteration...
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