Broken Homes Issues

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Positive and Negative attitude of a Child and The Reasons why they are Strong Home is where there is a father, mother and a child. Home is also a place that is full of love and happiness. But what if this home experienced a conflict between the father and the mother and eventually they got divorce? Could it still be a place that is full of love and happiness? Could you still call it a home? The product of broken homes will never say yes in those questions because divorce has some negative effects to a child. Many of our classmates or even our friends seek for love, love that they cannot feel at their homes. This is why they feel insecure to their friends that have a complete family. Being insecure, may lead them to hate everything that surrounds them. They may have a hard time at school because their problems in family affect their academics and they become lazy. They also lack confidence in facing the challenges because the persons, their parents, who make them strong, are getting divorce. Children that really grow up with a complete family are stronger both physical and emotional. Children that experience the conflict between the father and mother became stress and think that they are the reason behind the fight. This leads to the next psychological effect that divorce has on children. Depression is a major effect that divorce has on children. This is not necessarily something that occurs during the divorce, but has major effects on the later life of the child. Some parents are happy and strong enough to face the changes of their lives but if a child would be asked, divorce is so hard for them. Most often the children responded to the announcement of the divorce with apprehensiveness or anger. Several children panicked and a great many of the younger children didn’t really believe what they had been told. Divorce has many negative effects on the psychological and social aspects of a child’s life. A child may not show initially how he or she feels about the divorce, but the true feelings of that child eventually surface. Children incorporate repertoires of angry, impulsive, and violent behavior into their own behavior as a result of observing their parents’ responses to frustration and rage. This is something that many children witness, the divorce of their parents going through. The child naturally looks to his or her parent or parents for the example of how to handle certain situations and emotions. During a divorce there is much anger and aggression that is expressed by one or both parents of that child. This is not healthy for the child to witness for several reasons. One of the main reasons is that the child sees this example of aggression that his or her parents are setting, and he or she begins to react in the same manner. Anger and aggression tend to become the child’s tools for solving his or her problems. The child becomes like the parents and could cause harm to others because of not knowing or understanding how to control these feelings. He or she may often violently lash out at those around him or her that cause these feelings to occur. Depression is a major effect that divorce has on children. This is not necessarily something that occurs during the divorce, but has major effects on the later life of the child. A high level of marital conflict experienced during childhood has been linked to more depression and other psychological disorders in young adults, compared with those reporting lower levels of family conflict during childhood. Most of the adolescents were overly depressed, many had conscious suicidal thoughts and a minority showed increased acting out with self-destructive components, but without anxious depression. These are common psychological effects of divorce on children. There are also many social effects that divorce has on children. The child often feels unconnected to his or her peers. He or she feels “unable to make or maintain friendships and complained about being ‘unconnected’ to...
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