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Helen Fisher, Ph.D., is one of this country's most prominent anthropologists. Prior to becoming a Research Professor at Rutgers University, she was a Research Associate at the American Museum of Natural History in New York City. Dr. Fisher has conducted extensive research on the evolution, expression, and science of love, and her two most recent books, The First Sex and Anatomy of Love , were New York Times Notable Books.
Hellen Fishes talks about Romantic love in her speech. Main characteristic of romantic Love is 'craving.' In Romantic Love, a person attaches to his partner both sexually and emotionally. From biological prospective, when dopamine drives up in the person's brain, Romantic love occurs. In that moment, dopamine makes the person so pleased and happy that he can even die if his partner wants him to do.
The definition for love that Hellen proposes is much simpler and more understandable than what the great thinkers have come up with. According to Hellen, 'Romantic Love' is a heightened emotional state in which the subject feels an intense attraction for another person.
With this definition in mind, I think the feeling of love is very pleasant, but it is not something that can endure forever. The expectation of Romantic Love to last for the lifetime can be a cause of ending up in divorce among couples.
In most cases, Romantic Love can conceal faults that the other person has and can make him or her appear perfect. In other words,...