You can’t forget your past even in a bright present. In the novel Pretties, Scott Westerfeld discusses the different stages a girl, Tally Youngblood (Tally-wa), goes through to become a beautiful woman. Girls are put into “The Uglies” category until they turn 16 which is when “The Specials” submit them into a surgery that transforms their lives. The surgery consist of making them beautiful, strong, healthy, and slowly erasing parts of their memories for the purpose of them only remembering the new memories they create. The memories will always remain in their mind whether they remember them or not. As hard as Tally tries to forget her past, it will always find its way back into her life.…
Life is a balancing act between the past, present, and future. Expressing guilt and regret about the past is almost instinctual, but we accept that it is unchangeable and we put it behind us. However, there are some, who so desperately cling to the idea of the past and believe that they have the power to repeat it. While an action can be repeated in order to emulate an action of the past, the entirety of the moment can never be recreated. This is due to the fact that unlike a physical action, the emotions and intent behind the action are impossible to duplicate.…
When people enter into any new relationship, they come to the new with a lot of old fears and unhealed emotional wounds (Daniel Sugarman p757). For example, I had an ex-girlfriend that goes by the name Maria. She was the last girl that I was intimate with before my wife Anita. Maria and I went our separate ways, because she did not want permanent commitment for the second time. Therefore, I moved forward without her, because I was in search of a soul mate. Six months later, I met Anita while attending an Emergency Medical Technical course at Southwestern College. Ironically, we were taking the same course with similar backgrounds; prior work history in medical field. Shortly after, we became study partners, and then passionate companions. Six months later, we got married and had two beautiful girls. Ten years later, I received a friend request via Facebook from my ex-girlfriend Maria. Secretly, I accepted the request; therefore Anita would have been upset, if she found out about Maria. Three months passed and Anita is still not aware of my friendship with my ex-girlfriend Maria. Then one day, I forgot and left my Facebook account unlocked; Anita found out the wrong way. It was a day I will never forget; I could not sleep for weeks, because I would be reminded of my treachery. As a result, I closed my Facebook account and never spoke to Maria…
sometimes the only thing that can save us is letting go off the past and trying to…
Hung up on a piece of the past will ultimately lead to…
The past should stay in the past, no matter how much you think you miss it. The past – while there were good times – is a place I never wanted to revisit ever again. It was an intense love affair, filled with passion and bursting with emotion, although, that was only on my part. If I’m honest, I don’t think he cared much about me. It took me a while to realize this, but when I did, it took a lot of courage to leave him.…
Carl Band once said, “Though no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending.” Growing up, I’ve learned to believe in second chances. Throughout my lifetime, I have noticed that every person makes mistakes at various points in their lifetime. As humans, we tend to hold grudges, but what we really need to try is to forgive and forget. Giving people second chances is a great thing to do; but what you do with your second chance is your decision. People can use the second chance to their advantage or they can use it to harm the people they have once hurt. I too have made mistakes in my life, but the people I’ve hurt the most while making these mistakes have always been the ones to forgive me.…
Many people can relate to feeling a need to escape from their past. More specifically,…
With each day that goes by, these memories seem to grow stronger stronger, having an increased effect with time. But living in the past is not an option these days, wasting time on things that are done will get you nowhere, and the time to move on and forget is now, before any more time is…
Growing up, Sedaris had a good life. He had a loving family that supported him and made sure he was well taking care of. Sedaris’ friend, Hugh had a very difficult lifestyle. When Hugh was growing up as a child, he saw things that children should not be forced to witness. Hugh’s class took a field trip to a slaughterhouse one day, where they were treated to a pig’s execution. “…One of the brothers drew a pistol from his back pocket, held it against the animal’s temple, and shot the piglet, execution-style.” (Paragraph 6, page 109) At another occasion, Hugh witnesses a dead man on a telephone pole. “Unlike me, he left the theater two hours later, to find a dead man hanging from a telephone pole at the far end of the unpaved parking lot.” (Paragraph 10, page 110) Hugh was often neglected by this family and spent majority of his adolescence with surrogate parents. Hugh’s life wasn’t the not good at all but Sedaris wanted Hugh’s life.…
Over the years everybody said senior year is the year you make the most memorable memories with your friends. I wasted all that time that I could’ve been doing amazing things with my buds all because of a girl. It wasn’t until graduation when I realized I had only a handful of valued memories my senior year. The tragic part is that I wouldn’t see half of my friends ever again. The utter disappointment I felt was unbearable. You can’t relive the past and that’s what damaged me the most. If I would’ve known I was going to end up dumped my senior year I would’ve spent every second of it with my…
I knew that it was a risky idea to illustrate a future I had not yet been a part of, but I was blinded by love and as we moved forward in our relationship, it was apparent that the fairytale I painted in my mind was slowly uncovering itself as a horror story. Years passed and similar to any other relationship, we had our ups and downs. There were times where I felt like it was us against the world, but we increasingly started going head to…
Seventh and eighth grade years of school were the most fun for me. I can't remember a bad experience within these two years. I hung out with all the same friends back then as I do now and I wouldn't have it any other way. It seemed as though through middle school there was absolutely nothing to worry about and no real pressure from the school.…
It seems like everything starts out when you are young. These are the memories that you will hold on for the rest of your life. Certain memories either make you cringe or smile. Whether it was the one time you and your sister were throwing a pillow around the house and your mother told you not to, and it resulted in a shattered black vase. Or the vacation to every child's idea of heaven, Disney World.…
As she slept curiosity suddenly came over me, very quietly I got out of bed grabbing her bag which contained the note that was tapped to the door, into the bathroom I went. My eyes could not believe what was written so boldly across the paper “I HOPE SHE WAS WORTH IT.” I could not resist questioning the matter at hand, I woke her up and she blatantly denied there being any meaning to this card. We argued hard and like ever before, almost like she had forgotten who I was, like I didn’t matter to her. The rest of the night went on and we were both hurt. I used indirect termination strategies to spare my heart anymore hurt. I couldn’t come to terms that this was finally coming to an end. Four years later, I found out I was never her one and only I was simply her girlfriend number two.…