Dr. Kevin Leman, author of the book. The Birth Order, “why you are the way you are as a psychologist who has been saying for more than thirty five years about the impact of the birth order. Once you figure out your birth order, as well as the birth orders of those who you love, you’ll be way ahead of everyone else in the game of life. If you’re a parent, I’ll reveal and last born. If you’re married, I’ll give you some tips about which birth order combinations make for the smoothest-flowing marriages, and what you can do to make your relationship thrive. If you are in business world, you’ll learn how to use your natural birth order to encouraging your co-workers. First born children enjoy every special relationship with their parents. They get to receive 100% attention and every accomplishment is treated like a big deal. Because first time parents try very hard to make sure that everything is perfect for their first born son or daughter. Therefore first born children tend to be perfectionists and over-achievers. As Dr. Leman says, “first borns are the presidents, mayors, and PTA presidents.”
As Dr. Leman, the middle child does get fewer pages in this book than the other birth orders. One reason for this is that the psychologists don’t know that much about middle children, they are, in fact, a bit mysterious. Whatever personality traits have been adopted by the first born child, the second child will become the opposite. The first two kids in any family are night and day different as Dr, Leman middle children often play the role of peacekeeper in the family, mediating between the older and younger siblings. They have strong social skills and get along well with others. Because middles often feel like fifth wheels that are out of place at home, so no wonder, friends become very important to them.
The youngest born in the family grows up with experienced as Dr. Leman “the clowns of the family.” They typically have fewer responsibilities and have more freedom....
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