Better the foot slip than the tongue
Better the foot slip than the tongue
What is a “word”? It is just a combination of sounds and letters. But let’s see. When mother says to her little daughter: “You are my sweetie” or “You are my charming princess” a little curious creature smiles and snuggles to the most tender person in her small and colourful world. But what about: “You are a very naughty girl. How could you tear your new dress!” crying her mother angrily. These word combinations cause an effect of blazing splashes of champagne and a child begins crying and apologizing but deep inside an angry thing takes offence at the whole world.
Words have an enormous influence on us. They can make us be happy or unhappy, kind or angry, condescending or merciful. They can revive or kill us. For us to be a part of society is very significant to feel the support that goes directly from people who are close to us. As usual we express it with words that show our true and sincere attitude to a person. Or not who knows. But there is one very essential point. Sometimes words don’t work for us. “The word you did not say is your slave, the word that escaped from you is your master” said one very wise Oriental poet. And it is proved for centuries. Everyone has such situation when you say something angrily or even unconsciously and then you understand that you abuse or offend a person and it could be even a first step to a conflict. And then even after all things are set, you remember that unpleasant moment in your soul, you try to forget with all your heart but cannot. But it is hardly possible to avoid such situations. Sometimes they help us to reconsider our behavior and force us not to put on airs. But nevertheless somebody suffers.
Beyond any doubt actions speak louder than words but ironically human beings like to do everything quite contrary and as usual are entrapped by their own stupidity. I think that the most crucial moment is to remember that everything you think, say or do reflects on the people you
What is a “word”? It is just a combination of sounds and letters. But let’s see. When mother says to her little daughter: “You are my sweetie” or “You are my charming princess” a little curious creature smiles and snuggles to the most tender person in her small and colourful world. But what about: “You are a very naughty girl. How could you tear your new dress!” crying her mother angrily. These word combinations cause an effect of blazing splashes of champagne and a child begins crying and apologizing but deep inside an angry thing takes offence at the whole world.
Words have an enormous influence on us. They can make us be happy or unhappy, kind or angry, condescending or merciful. They can revive or kill us. For us to be a part of society is very significant to feel the support that goes directly from people who are close to us. As usual we express it with words that show our true and sincere attitude to a person. Or not who knows. But there is one very essential point. Sometimes words don’t work for us. “The word you did not say is your slave, the word that escaped from you is your master” said one very wise Oriental poet. And it is proved for centuries. Everyone has such situation when you say something angrily or even unconsciously and then you understand that you abuse or offend a person and it could be even a first step to a conflict. And then even after all things are set, you remember that unpleasant moment in your soul, you try to forget with all your heart but cannot. But it is hardly possible to avoid such situations. Sometimes they help us to reconsider our behavior and force us not to put on airs. But nevertheless somebody suffers.
Beyond any doubt actions speak louder than words but ironically human beings like to do everything quite contrary and as usual are entrapped by their own stupidity. I think that the most crucial moment is to remember that everything you think, say or do reflects on the people you