being single or married
Being Single or Being Married
Is it better to be married or single? I suppose this subject is often discussed in today’s world. Couples do not hurry to go to the Registrar's office. Before swearing an oath before the altar, lovers prefer to live in civil marriage. It helps to clear up the needs, duties and difficulties. Once my friend’s 9-year-old niece said that «It's better for girls to be single, but not for boys. Boys need somebody to clean up after them».
Living the single life can be dramatically different from being married. A marriage traditionally marks the beginning of a family, but being single usually means you are free to roam as you please. The differences between married and single life range from very small to very large, but there are a few core contrasts that serve to illustrate the main differences between the two lifestyles.
Firsly, when you are married, you no longer exist as an independent entity. You might keep your job and your relationship might be excellent, but from your wedding you must always think as a husband and wife. The decisions you make affect your future together. The things you buy have an impact on both of your finances. Everything you do must be considered from your husband or wife's point of view. When you are single, you only have to consider your own interests when making decisions, but you are also short the emotional support that makes hard decisions easier to bear.
Secondly, being married reminds a second job. You have to work at it, for it and aim to be successful. Married couples need dedicated time to communicate with one another and help each other with their emotional and physical demands. Because of this, married people usually have less free time to spend hanging out with friends or to do some hobby. If you are single, you have more free time but also might find that your free time is not as fun without someone with which to spend it.
Moreover, it is interesting that getting married can have significant monetary
Is it better to be married or single? I suppose this subject is often discussed in today’s world. Couples do not hurry to go to the Registrar's office. Before swearing an oath before the altar, lovers prefer to live in civil marriage. It helps to clear up the needs, duties and difficulties. Once my friend’s 9-year-old niece said that «It's better for girls to be single, but not for boys. Boys need somebody to clean up after them».
Living the single life can be dramatically different from being married. A marriage traditionally marks the beginning of a family, but being single usually means you are free to roam as you please. The differences between married and single life range from very small to very large, but there are a few core contrasts that serve to illustrate the main differences between the two lifestyles.
Firsly, when you are married, you no longer exist as an independent entity. You might keep your job and your relationship might be excellent, but from your wedding you must always think as a husband and wife. The decisions you make affect your future together. The things you buy have an impact on both of your finances. Everything you do must be considered from your husband or wife's point of view. When you are single, you only have to consider your own interests when making decisions, but you are also short the emotional support that makes hard decisions easier to bear.
Secondly, being married reminds a second job. You have to work at it, for it and aim to be successful. Married couples need dedicated time to communicate with one another and help each other with their emotional and physical demands. Because of this, married people usually have less free time to spend hanging out with friends or to do some hobby. If you are single, you have more free time but also might find that your free time is not as fun without someone with which to spend it.
Moreover, it is interesting that getting married can have significant monetary