Battle of the Parenting Styles Authoritarian V.S. Permissive Parenting

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Parenting style refers to the way parents behave around their children. A parenting style is not determined by individual events, like a moment of conflict. Instead, it is defined by the overall demeanor that a parent has when he or she is engaging his or her children. There are two popular parenting styles that most people are aware of: Authoritarian and Permissive parenting. The authoritarian style is a restrictive style of parenting focusing on following rules and assuming that the child is incompetent. The authoritarian parenting style is sometimes referred to as the military parenting style. On the other hand, the permissive style includes parents who are involved and loving with their children but who fail to set limits or provide meaningful controls over their behavior. In short, the permissive parenting style is as people call it the “anything goes” style. As a result, in the battle of the parenting styles, authoritarian parenting wins because of consequences, feelings, and background.                                                                                                                                           Everything someone does brings consequences, but especially when it comes down to parenting styles. Children of permissive parents do not have guidance or support. Also, the permissive parents are unconcerned about their children’s lives because of their own selfish interests. For example, some mothers care more about their lovers than their own child. As a result, a big quantity of children of permissive parents end up dropping out of school, in jail, selling or doing drugs, being a delinquent,  a murderer, or  a predator.  This is all due to the unimportance the parents give their children. However, children of authoritarian parents have guidance and support. The authoritarian parents set and enforce limits, but they do so to protect their children. They also are very involved in the child’s lives and make sure the child is doing all...
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