Baby Dumping

The first people should we blame of the couple itself. As we can see majority of thepeople who do this is Malay, which are a Muslim. As a Muslim, we should follow the guide and rule that provided by Al-Quran and As Sunnah. In my opinion, couple is not wrong, as long, we do not overstep the Islamic principle. As we know, youth today are too emotional and fanatic with their couple. Their lover is “EVERYTHING” in their life. “You are my life”, “you are my soul”, “you are my heart”, and many more saying to show their love. When they are in deep lovewith their lover, the illegal thing will become legal for them. They will face life such as a married couple without any guilty. This thing should be prevent early. Here, I want to address to the women for not believe their boyfriend 100% and give him everything (especially your body). Even he promise to marry you, please do not give yourself to him. Remember that, if you do it you not only ruined your future and honour but also your family. They will be shame with the immoral thing that you are doing. What they are doing is against the value of the family. It is like it is a mistake. They become desperate, perhaps they cannot see the right person who can help them find the solution. Both of the male and female teenagers are fault in this matter. First of all, the female is wrong because she is the one who born the baby and abandon him or her. The girl has to make decision alone, and they do not have anyone to turn to and the man by then is not there anymore. To them, it is their fault because they are pregnant. The man does not want to get married with them. Men irresponsibility also contributes to the women’s decision to dumped their baby because he did not want the child. So it’s not fair to blame baby’s mother only, because baby’s father is also a good reason why that issue happened and men also one’s of the perpetrators of baby dumping.