Arranged Marriage Is Securer Than Romantic Marriage

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[Arranged Marriage is Securer than Romantic Marriage]

Name: Yuzhong SHI StudentNr.: 0810990 Group: IBMS205

Table of Content
Introduction………………………………………………………………………………………….1 Overview of Arrange Marriages……………………………………………………………….2 Overview of Romantic Marriages……………………………………………………………..2 Supportive articles………………………………………………………………………………….3 Summary of Research…………………………………………………………………………….4 Discuss assumptive statement…………………………………………………………………4 Conclusion…………………………………………………………………………………………….6 Reference………………………………………………………………………………………………7

Arranged Marriage is securer than Romantic Marriage



Introduction

Marriage, as the typical contract between two people based on love and commitment to each other has been argued from the past to current period. Especially in Asian countries, arranged marriage is widespread among the generation of our parents who were born in 1950s and 1960s, the old generation insists on arranged marriage for them because of old tradition which pay particular attention to marriage that should be well-matched in social and economic status. In nowadays, with the development of education and awareness of human rights, young generation recognize their right to choose mate and they prefer romantic way than be arranged. Young adults build up the relationship and get into marriage based on their true affection. However, arranged marriage is still common in Middle East and Asian countries such as India and part of China. The advantages and disadvantages of both opinions will be discussed in the essay.

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Overview of Arranged Marriage

Third parties (including but not limited parents) arrange two persons for the sake of the future of both sides to each other to be wed, is usually decided by parents and elders in the family, especially among royalty and aristocracy in Europe in the past. In nowadays, arranged marriage is still accepted widely in Asian, Middle East, and Africa. At present in China, the object of modern arranged marriage is getting younger and younger, arranged marriages are becoming a major way to solve marital problems in the society. In the rural areas, romantic way takes up a little amount; considerable scale of men and women to be together are relying on matchmaker, both men and women may never meet each other before marriage. All the martial activities are discussed and done between parents of both families. After marriage, fruit of love may be produced between couples, or maybe not, however, most couples under this kind of marriage proceed smoothly over a lifetime, the relationship is such secure and even no divorce between them. Traditional marriage stressed and followed a Chinese proverb “hold your hand and aging with you”, in their whole life people can only get married once, unless an exception for special reasons (such as physical condition, intelligent reason or extremely bad economic condition) to divorce. Traditionally, divorce is a disgrace to a family. If a huge number of people against it, they should have launched a historic revolution in the marriages, as if peasants would revolt under heavy oppression, but not. Therefore, arranged marriages bring advantages and positive impact rather than its disadvantages.  Overview of Romantic Marriage

Getting married in romantic way is a legal human right for two individuals who decide to live together base on true affection. Under romantic marriage, men and women has freedom and rights to choose the object of love and marriage, and also choose the way of associating with each other, such as the time of marriage, cohabitation, long-term maintenance of relationship or live separately. They didn’t follow the provisions of the traditional arranged marriages. Romanic marriages act on behalf of the progress of society. In the late 1980s, after the reforms, with the emancipation of mind, the concept of free love was violently swept across China, people abandon the traditional way and “go out” to find mate...
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