dAdvice to parents
By Gjystina Vukaj
Adolescence is a trouble time for teenagers and also for parents. Adolescence is filled with anxiety and fear, fear of unknown. Parents are afraid of losing control of their children and teenagers are trying to find their own way in the world. Parents can ease the passage of their child into adulthood if they cast their minds back to when they were teenagers and adapt to the world that has changed since then. Parents shouldn’t try to mould their child into what they want, instead allow your child to discover their own identity and style. If parents don’t allow their child to discover its own identity their kids become an exact mirror of them and has no views or thoughts of their own. The key of teenager’s happiness is to get them whatever they ask for. Whoever told you spoiling your kids is a bad thing, they were greatly mistaken. If you want to be a “cool” parent or if you want your kids to really like you, buy them whatever they ask for. If you keep giving your kids whatever they want, they will keep coming back for more and they will be showing their appreciation. Your daughter absolutely needs that eighty dollars for the adorable dress that she saw at the mall the other day, and your son needs another forty dollars again for the new video game he wants. Giving these generous sums of money to your kids will make them happy and it will also teach them to be independent individuals. Spoiling your kids will definitely teach them about the importance of the thing they have and they will make their own living and you will be a good example of their children. Another very important element of good parenting is making sure you keep track of every single thing going on in your kid’s life. Before allowing your kids to go out don’t be too annoying asking too many question when they are doing whatever they are doing. This will build trust between you and your child. Try to have a trusting relationship but don’t forget to...
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