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Advantages and Disadvantages of Being Member of a Fraternity
BEING A FRATERNITY MEMBER: ADVANTAGES AND DISADVANTAGES
By: Arsenio Unajan Baquilid
Prologue
I am a founding member of a fraternity. As such, I can consider myself having adequate exposures on the life of this type of organization. To begin with, let me emphasize that a fraternity or sorority is a choice of a lifestyle for a lifetime. It has a strong influence on one’s personality. It can make or unmake a person.
I have heard of many arguments against being a fraternity/sorority member. Some are true and some are not. Perhaps it would not be amiss to mention that there are organizations of this kind that had been reported of wrong doings that others had even been proven to have transgressed the law. But that doesn’t mean that all fraternities/sororities are that no good. That actually depends on the kind of fraternity/sorority you are in. Hence, if you are interested in joining a fraternity/sorority, it’s wise for you to critically choose one that will fit to your liking.
It is unfortunate however, that non-fraternity/sorority people are making sweeping statements which are unfair to these organizations in general. Many had the impression that fraternity/sorority is only an excuse for hanging out, partying, drinking session, or meeting boys or girls, or for whatever it is you’re into. But these are unkind words because they are not true to all fraternities/sororities.
The truth of the matter is that there are fraternities or sororities that pride themselves on academic performance, extra-curricular activities, leadership development, community service, and many other achievements. Actually, the organization is a venue where you can practice the full development of an integrated personality.
You and I may have different impressions and experiences about fraternity/sorority. But I am pretty sure that your membership to the organization has influenced your life. I do hope it is for good.
But fraternity or sorority is not just for everyone. So, please do not rush
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