According to a dictionary, the definition of adoption is the formal legal process to adopt and raise as one's own child. Well in our country we see nothing wrong with adoption. On the contrary, we see adoption as a wonderful act for people to take a child into their homes and give them love, support, and a future that they did not receive from their real parents. But the word "adoption" becomes controversial after homosexuals or a same sex couple is added to such act. As a well-civilized nation and society, adoption from homosexual must be rejected and not permitted to homosexual couples. Adoption is a critical matter as well as a very important decision that the child that is being adopted never obtains the chance to make. Adopting a child should be considered a gift and not an advantage or a joke, and this is where this essay will lead to find the main reason why adoption is not for everyone.
Activist of gay rights believe adoption SHOULD be the legal recognition of gay marriage. But where was the child's happiness, rights, or even health for that matter remembered in this belief. Child may encounter different types of emotions, most of them negative, when informed that parents are homosexual. Children that were conducted in a research were known to be shocked, confused, hurt, and embarrassed. Young children need to deny the meaning of the information as older children may be burdened by the secret or have concerns for their own sexual development, with an increased pressure to act out their heterosexuality for reassurance. All these statements fall into the psychological development of the child, meaning that if adopted by homosexual parents, the child is to have confusion and even feel hatred towards the parents or even himself. Important factors such as the happiness and the rights of the child that is going to be adopted should never forgotten. The happiness of the child is entirely depending on the hands of the parents. But how can the child find...
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