Achieving Respect in College

Only available on StudyMode
  • Pages : 2 (696 words )
  • Download(s) : 6
  • Published : October 21, 2008
Open Document
Text Preview
Jamie Bolton

“Respect in College”

It’s the school year again and it’s college move-in day, all the freshmen have their lists and bags making sure they have all the necessities. There’s one thing people don’t realize what they need to bring to college: respect. I know at first it doesn’t seem to be a big deal, but in the big picture it really is. My definition of respect that it is the realization of how special and unique a person, thing, or quality is. Respect is defined as having a mutual understanding and proper treatment of another person. To respect someone is to give them the honor and courtesy as required by customs, business, obligations, etc. Respect is needed to be shown outwardly to people and your surroundings but also within your own person and can be displayed in various ways. It plays a key role in creating opportunities and relationships which is needed for the possible development of our careers and life skills. The lack of respect or the confusion of respect and fear can also destroy and hinder your future in many different cases. As we enter college we need to acquire how many changes and differences there are from being at home. We need to learn how to interact with people from different cultures, statuses, and beliefs. In order to do so, we need to show them respect. As kids my parents taught my siblings and I the “Golden Rule”, treat others as you want to be treated. In essence this is the building block of respect. The Golden Rule is mutual respect for one’s neighbor by treating all people, not just people you know with consideration (Gensler). Along with the golden rule our parents and teachers taught us how to act out the golden rule by looking at the person who’s speaking, not talking while another person is speaking, address adults as Mr., Mrs., or Ms., not to interrupt conversations, asking before borrowing, knocking on doors before entering, no eavesdropping (family works). Gradually, as we get a more in-depth feel...
tracking img