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Abusive Relationship

Domestic Violence occurs in all cultures people of all races, ethnicities, religions, and classes can be perpetrators of domestic violence. Domestic violence is perpetrated by both men and women, and occurs in same-sex and opposite-sex relationships. The meaning of domestic violence (sometimes referred to as domestic abuse) occurs when a family member, partner or ex-partner attempts to physically or psychologically dominate another. According to the Center for Disease control, domestic violence is a serious, but preventable public health problem affecting more than 32 million Americans, or more than 10 % of the US population (Tjaden and Thoennes, 2000). There are numerous signs that your partner is an abuser. • Blames others for problems/ feelings

• Close mindedness
• Cruelty to animals and /or children
• Hypersensitivity
• Isolation of victim
• Jealousy
• Manipulation through guilt
• Minimization of violence
• Objectification of women
• “Playful “ use of force during sex
• Quick involvement
• Rigid sex roles
• Threats of violence
• Tight control of finances
• Unrealistic exceptions
There are different kinds of abuse such as psychological, economic, stalking, and spiritual abuse it is very overwhelming. In the United States alone women are six times as likely as men to experience intimate partner violence. Violence against men I think is very hush, hush it’s back in closet. Men do not or want to come out and say yes I’m being abuse. Researcher Tjaden and Thoennes found that “men living with male intimate partner violence than do men who live with female intimate partners.

The available data indicate that:

3.2 million men and nearly 5.3 million women experience mostly “minor” incidents of abuse (such as “pushing, grabbing, shoving, slapping, and hitting”) per year. In the United States, approximately 800,000 men per year (3.2%) are raped or physically assaulted by their partner. At least 371,000 men are stalked annually.

3% of nonfatal violence against men stems from domestic violence. In 2002, men comprised 24 % of domestic violence homicide victims. Over 20 years, the instances of homicide from domestic violence against men decreased by approximately 67%.

Women are dependent on their husbands or boyfriends. Who will pay the bills? How will I feed the kids? Or buy the things I need. It increases the financial burden and makes things harder to deal with and there are not that many resources or help to cope with or change the behavior of there spouse. At some point you have to realize what’s important stay and get beat or leave and live. They are three different cycles of violence Lenore Walker presented the model of a Cycle of Violence which consists of three basic phases:

Honeymoon phase
Characterized by affection, apology, and apparent end of violence.

Tension Building phase

Characterized by poor communication, tension, fear of causing outbursts.

Acting-out phase

Characterized by outburst of violent, abusive incidents.

Both men and women have been arrested and convicted of assaulting their partners in both heterosexual and homosexual relationships. The bulk of these arrests have been men being arrested for assaulting women. Determining how many instances domestic violence actually involve male victims is difficult. What is the police response to spouse abuse?

There have been major changes in the police response to spouse abuse since the 1976 International Association of Chiefs of Police directive stated that “wife abuse should not be considered a victimless crime” (Browne 1987, 168). In fact, many police departments have adopted pro-arrest or mandatory arrest policies for dealing with such incidents. In 1984, a report published by the United States Attorney General’s Task Force on Family Violence recommended that arrest be the preferred policy in dealing with...
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