Love is an emotion, where there is no wrong definition, for it suits each and every person differently, however some characteristics are the same amongst everybody. Pip thinks he is in love, but in my paper I investigate if it s a real desire of infatuation for Estella, or just a first big crush which lasted through out his teenage years. Pip s love for Estella is usually a one-way street, at least in his eyes. From the moment Pip meets her, he feels an attraction towards her. At the same token, Estella s outward feelings towards Pip are confusing and cruel. From slapping him in the face as hard as she can, to making him feel as low as dirt saying he has coarse hands and thick soles and such, Estella is able to crush Pip inside. He feels as though he cannot let. As time goes on, Pip learns all about Estella from her attitude and appearance. This attitude and appearance is what Pip wanted to attain so that Estella would love him. In chapter 17 Pip tells Biddy I am not at all happy as I am (Dickens, 127). He wants to become a gentleman. Throughout the book we discover that his false love controls Pip. His infatuation for Estella inspires him to become an educated gentleman. Miss Haversham did. After her betrayal in love she hardened her heart towards her fellow man. By hardening her heart and suppressing her naturally affectionate nature, she committed a crime against herself. Miss Havershams love for Compeyson is of a compassionate kind, this blinded her to his true nature, as Herbert remarked, "too haughty and too much in love to be advised by anyone." At Compeysons desertion her anger and sorrow became extreme and she threw herself and Satis House into perpetual mourning and a monument to her broken heart, shutting the world out and herself from the world. Her only concession is in her adoption of Estella.
Miss Haversham has ulterior motives in adopting Estella; this is not a loving action on her part, but a calculated maneuver to turn the child into a haughty, heartless instrument of revenge against men. Estella is encouraged to practice her disdain on Pip and to break his heart. Paradoxically, Miss Haversham’s greatest sin is against herself. By hardening her heart she loses her generous, affectionate nature and becomes withered inside emotionally. Her punishment is that the heartless young woman she has made, uses her lack of feelings against Miss Haversham.
Throughout the book many friendships become evident between Pip and other people. Pip is such a loyal friend of Herbert's that he cares more about Herbert's finances than he does about his own, and Pip even goes to Mrs. Havisham to ask for money for Herbert. Pip is devoted to Herbert, and he will go to great lengths for Herbert's well being. The reader is drawn into the power of this friendship more than any other negative thing happening. In addition, Wemmick helped Pip with Provis' escape, and by doing this Wemmick put himself in danger of being caught. Wemmick does this selfless act for his friendship with Pip. The bond of these two men over powers common sense, because they knowingly put themselves into danger. These lasting companionships are very far from any sort of disconsolation. 3.Suffering
Pip as the book's narrator and protagonist, is the most obvious victim of suffering, even though in practical terms he often does not have much to complain about. He suffers an unhappy home life, orphaned at a young age and raised by his bitter and vicious sister, Mrs Joe Gargery. Then, having been introduced to the crumbling ruin of Satis House and its crumbling resident Miss Havisham, he gains class awareness and becomes depressed that he is 'common' and beneath the status of the beautiful Estella. Even when Pip is made the recipient of a huge fortune and moves to London, he still suffers, the owner of a tortured heart being stamped on by the scornful and cold Estella. It is difficult sometimes to feel much sympathy for...